Throwing tantrums only works if you are
a toddler or an attractive woman. If you are a grown ass man that
starts yelling when you don't get your way chances are people are
talking about you behind your back. Sadly, you may not even know that
you are doing the opposite of keeping your cool and you're being a
punk ass bitch. Yeah. No one wants to be that but how do you know
you're being one if no one tells you? The thing is we now live in a
time where asking for the truth is only safe around friends and some
family. Not all of them because we all know aunt Patty is a gossip.
There are many ways to learn how to keep your cool. Taking deep breaths. Counting to ten. Learning how to meditate. Float tanks. Exercising some of that bitchassness away. One way to check your keeping cool levels is to ask yourself a few questions and be honest about it. If
someone cuts you off in traffic what do you do? Now ask someone who
rides in the car with you what you do. If the grocery line is long
what sounds do you make? Are they bitch sounds like heavy sighing or
passive aggressive watch checking even though you ain't wearing one?
When someone raises their voice do you take that as a chance to raise
yours even louder?
