No grown ass man likes owing money.
What is worse is having to borrow it in the first place. But the
absolute worse thing is loaning money to someone and having to fight
to get it back. There is a family member that I was already on the
fence about that owes me almost $500 that I don't even want to hear
from.
People say when you loan a family member money that you might
as well never expect to get it back. That shouldn't be true. I had to
borrow $500 a couple of months ago and gave it back immediately. Did
it hurt me to give it back financially? A tiny bit. But the feeling
of owing money for me is way worse. Well, at least for me. I actually get physically ill.